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THE RESOLUTION

Before the end of this year, I wanted something to blog about. So I sent a whatsapp broadcast to some of my contacts asking them on what to blog about. My former Broadcast Journalism lecturer gave an answer and that instant it seemed pointless to me.  He said “You can blog about something else. Take a break from your life at least this season”. It took me two months to finally get what he was actually trying to say to me. When I woke up today everything he said finally made sense and I get it now. If you my readers really observed,

I never posted any New Year resolution like I've done for the previous years. Well it’s because I figured out that there was no need putting a list down and ignoring it to do other things. My resolution was to make a resolution every day of my life. That is, go through something and take the lessons from it and actually work on it.

The blog started as a weight loss blog. When the goal weight was finally achieved, I made it all about me. A personal blog. A place where I can share all my feelings and what I’ve been going through. Well I’m not going to stop sharing my feelings up here but from today, there will be less sharing of personal feelings and more sharing of weight loss goals and feelings. What majority of my readers don’t know is I gave up on myself and gained most of the pounds I lost back.

So of my friends and I decided to take that bold step again to finally lose the weight and keep it off. So just like my lecturer said I’m taking a break from myself. Now going to focus on my friends and the good things and the hot mess we are about to be. In my next write up, I’ll introduce them to you guys and then we will take it from there.


HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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